"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Small school environment, very small...

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Ive been reading this site for the entire summer and must say wow... props to the DJ Bible's authors and Mr. Fingers a little above the rest :) IVe learned ALOT from here and have boosted my confidence incrediably. But now back to my problem...

I go to a very very small private school, literally there are 10 people in my class and mine is the biggest : / After spending my summer working on my game im ready to go and looking back i can see several missed opportunities and signals from the ladies which i am going to pursue when school starts. But with the extremely small school environmest everyone is everybodies friend so any relationships I pursue must be a LTR because with the small environment dumping any chick gives you instant bad rep because you just dumped every chicks "best" friend...

Any advice from anyone who is in or has gone through a similiar situation?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It doesn't just have to be in your school...
I go to an all boys private school and I board there, but there are still oppertunities for me to meet and 'sarge' girls form the nearby private schools, and even to properly date them.
 
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Feel for ya, if it's any use I have about 5~8 people in my class. Get friendly with em and see if they can let you hang with em. That way you get to see some of thier friends or people they know or something. BTW why would you be so interested in an LTR anyway?
 
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Steg said:
Feel for ya, if it's any use I have about 5~8 people in my class. Get friendly with em and see if they can let you hang with em. That way you get to see some of thier friends or people they know or something. BTW why would you be so interested in an LTR anyway?
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Im not lol thats my point. With so few hot chicks at my school breaking any kind of relationship = bad rep with all of them =0
 
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I know what you mean, I used to be in a school with only 100 students, my advice. There is a whole world outside your school! Start exploring it!
Who says that you have to hook up with a chick from your school.

There are more HB´s then just those at your school! Go out there and start exploring:up:

Hope this helps

Greetz from Holland:up:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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