"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Small school environment, very small...

Turnthemusicup

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Ive been reading this site for the entire summer and must say wow... props to the DJ Bible's authors and Mr. Fingers a little above the rest :) IVe learned ALOT from here and have boosted my confidence incrediably. But now back to my problem...

I go to a very very small private school, literally there are 10 people in my class and mine is the biggest : / After spending my summer working on my game im ready to go and looking back i can see several missed opportunities and signals from the ladies which i am going to pursue when school starts. But with the extremely small school environmest everyone is everybodies friend so any relationships I pursue must be a LTR because with the small environment dumping any chick gives you instant bad rep because you just dumped every chicks "best" friend...

Any advice from anyone who is in or has gone through a similiar situation?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It doesn't just have to be in your school...
I go to an all boys private school and I board there, but there are still oppertunities for me to meet and 'sarge' girls form the nearby private schools, and even to properly date them.
 

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Feel for ya, if it's any use I have about 5~8 people in my class. Get friendly with em and see if they can let you hang with em. That way you get to see some of thier friends or people they know or something. BTW why would you be so interested in an LTR anyway?
 

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Steg said:
Feel for ya, if it's any use I have about 5~8 people in my class. Get friendly with em and see if they can let you hang with em. That way you get to see some of thier friends or people they know or something. BTW why would you be so interested in an LTR anyway?
Im not lol thats my point. With so few hot chicks at my school breaking any kind of relationship = bad rep with all of them =0
 

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I know what you mean, I used to be in a school with only 100 students, my advice. There is a whole world outside your school! Start exploring it!
Who says that you have to hook up with a chick from your school.

There are more HB´s then just those at your school! Go out there and start exploring:up:

Hope this helps

Greetz from Holland:up:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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