"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Small school environment, very small...

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Ive been reading this site for the entire summer and must say wow... props to the DJ Bible's authors and Mr. Fingers a little above the rest :) IVe learned ALOT from here and have boosted my confidence incrediably. But now back to my problem...

I go to a very very small private school, literally there are 10 people in my class and mine is the biggest : / After spending my summer working on my game im ready to go and looking back i can see several missed opportunities and signals from the ladies which i am going to pursue when school starts. But with the extremely small school environmest everyone is everybodies friend so any relationships I pursue must be a LTR because with the small environment dumping any chick gives you instant bad rep because you just dumped every chicks "best" friend...

Any advice from anyone who is in or has gone through a similiar situation?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It doesn't just have to be in your school...
I go to an all boys private school and I board there, but there are still oppertunities for me to meet and 'sarge' girls form the nearby private schools, and even to properly date them.
 
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Feel for ya, if it's any use I have about 5~8 people in my class. Get friendly with em and see if they can let you hang with em. That way you get to see some of thier friends or people they know or something. BTW why would you be so interested in an LTR anyway?
 
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Steg said:
Feel for ya, if it's any use I have about 5~8 people in my class. Get friendly with em and see if they can let you hang with em. That way you get to see some of thier friends or people they know or something. BTW why would you be so interested in an LTR anyway?
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Im not lol thats my point. With so few hot chicks at my school breaking any kind of relationship = bad rep with all of them =0
 
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I know what you mean, I used to be in a school with only 100 students, my advice. There is a whole world outside your school! Start exploring it!
Who says that you have to hook up with a chick from your school.

There are more HB´s then just those at your school! Go out there and start exploring:up:

Hope this helps

Greetz from Holland:up:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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