"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i made a date with a girl i met at a bar. we talked on the phone yesterday and we decided to meet up next friday to go out. but now i found out my friends having a party on the same day. my friend is moving out of town permanently..so i cant really miss the party.

is it going to look bad if i call the new girl i met and try to reschedual? i walk talking to a friend earlier and he made it seem like it was a big deal that im already cancelling/reschedualing so early
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Invite her to the party. What could be better than that?
 
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It might actually look better if you reschedual the date for the party because its showing that you have a life and that she needs to gain your approval of importance to spend time with you.
 
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Take her to your party, girls like to see guys in context, meaning you and your buds. Keep her in the loop,but go and make the most of it.
 
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Bro , I'd reschedule.
You odn't wanna be at a buddy's going away party having to worry about entertaining some broad.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ya inviting her to the party is out of the question. its not her place for me to invite her.
 
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