"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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vazeh

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i made a date with a girl i met at a bar. we talked on the phone yesterday and we decided to meet up next friday to go out. but now i found out my friends having a party on the same day. my friend is moving out of town permanently..so i cant really miss the party.

is it going to look bad if i call the new girl i met and try to reschedual? i walk talking to a friend earlier and he made it seem like it was a big deal that im already cancelling/reschedualing so early
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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tmpgstx

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Invite her to the party. What could be better than that?
 

SexinEar

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It might actually look better if you reschedual the date for the party because its showing that you have a life and that she needs to gain your approval of importance to spend time with you.
 

rocky_mtn

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Take her to your party, girls like to see guys in context, meaning you and your buds. Keep her in the loop,but go and make the most of it.
 

Natch

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Bro , I'd reschedule.
You odn't wanna be at a buddy's going away party having to worry about entertaining some broad.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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vazeh

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ya inviting her to the party is out of the question. its not her place for me to invite her.
 
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