"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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small question

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i made a date with a girl i met at a bar. we talked on the phone yesterday and we decided to meet up next friday to go out. but now i found out my friends having a party on the same day. my friend is moving out of town permanently..so i cant really miss the party.

is it going to look bad if i call the new girl i met and try to reschedual? i walk talking to a friend earlier and he made it seem like it was a big deal that im already cancelling/reschedualing so early
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Invite her to the party. What could be better than that?
 
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It might actually look better if you reschedual the date for the party because its showing that you have a life and that she needs to gain your approval of importance to spend time with you.
 
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Take her to your party, girls like to see guys in context, meaning you and your buds. Keep her in the loop,but go and make the most of it.
 
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Bro , I'd reschedule.
You odn't wanna be at a buddy's going away party having to worry about entertaining some broad.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

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ya inviting her to the party is out of the question. its not her place for me to invite her.
 
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