"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mrRuckus said:
I don't agree with part f, I don't know any powerlifters gave BBing a whirl, cut up for a show and won it as he claims. There may be a few BBers who did some powerlifting in their time but mostly BBing when taking it serious as a pro. The article still doesn't say anything new, it still says we need to get stronger and eat above maintenance. Infact, he's agreeing with me, by saying strength gains are important and not absolute strength, along with appropriate rep ranges for goals. Case closed. And in BBing you lift heavy and often low reps.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mad Maniac, could you post a sample bodybuilding routine? When I think of bodybilding routine, it might be alot different than yourperception of a bodybuilding routine, cause in my oppinion - alot of different methods build muscle.

When I talk about powerlifting routines, I'm not talking strictly 1-5 reps. It includes both low and high rep work. But with the principle that you get freaky strong and size will come if you eat enough to grow. As in the example of benching 400 lbs for eight reps will put alot more mass on your chest than benching 200 lbs for eight reps.
 

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Mad Maniac, could you post a sample bodybuilding routine? When I think of bodybilding routine, it might be alot different than yourperception of a bodybuilding routine, cause in my oppinion - alot of different methods build muscle.

When I talk about powerlifting routines, I'm not talking strictly 1-5 reps. It includes both low and high rep work. But with the principle that you get freaky strong and size will come if you eat enough to grow. As in the example of benching 400 lbs for eight reps will put alot more mass on your chest than benching 200 lbs for eight reps.
Already have done in another thread, might be a page back.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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