"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Small pocket self defence tools

truthistruth

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I have usb stick which is in covered with steel small but sturdy and with the long strap

I could swing and hit anyone dangerous

small pocket knife

what pocket tools do you have on you for protection
looked on google ,did not find any sophisticated ones ,
like with flashlight /knife/metal

EDIT
found throwing stars
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Warrior74

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I have a .45 caliber pistol.

but seriously...how many times have you needed a weapon? I've never used my pistol in anger or defense, but it is fun to go shooting.
 

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Once I was mugged ,
I could have used any of tools ,

not looking for a gun
Vermont is the only state

"how many times have you needed a weapon? "
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DJDamage

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You can use anything on you as self defence.

House keys can be used to gauge to eyes or scratch the face. I have a metal key chain in a shape of an arrow head which I can jab into someone's spleen.

A handful of coins thrown to someone face will distract him momentarily to either gain the upper hand or run away.

During a struggle you can remove your shirt and cover your attacker's face and choke him or slam his face/head to the pavement or a wall.

However 99% of all conflicts are avoidable, so use your brains.
 

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DJDamage said:
However 99% of all conflicts are avoidable, so use your brains.
Just read this until it sinks in.



truthistruth said:
Vermont is the only state
The other 49 will be shocked to learn this.



truthistruth said:
Once I was mugged ,
I could have used any of tools
Find a rock you like the feel of then.
 

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truthistruth said:
Once I was mugged ,
I could have used any of tools ,

not looking for a gun
Vermont is the only state

"how many times have you needed a weapon? "

been mugged twice at gun point, once with my pistol on me. Like I was gonna reach for it and get shot. If someone has got the drop on you, give them what they want.

Now if you come in my house in the middle of the night, be prepared to take two in the chest.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I have a kubotan on my keys. That works pretty well when you know how to use it. Even if you don't its still pretty effective as an eye gauger, fist brace, or even just to smack someone with while your holding on to your keys... or vice versa

Aside from that there are always these options as well

spiked kubotan

Pepper Spray Ring
 
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