"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Small pocket self defence tools

truthistruth

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I have usb stick which is in covered with steel small but sturdy and with the long strap

I could swing and hit anyone dangerous

small pocket knife

what pocket tools do you have on you for protection
looked on google ,did not find any sophisticated ones ,
like with flashlight /knife/metal

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found throwing stars
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Warrior74

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I have a .45 caliber pistol.

but seriously...how many times have you needed a weapon? I've never used my pistol in anger or defense, but it is fun to go shooting.
 

truthistruth

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Once I was mugged ,
I could have used any of tools ,

not looking for a gun
Vermont is the only state

"how many times have you needed a weapon? "
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJDamage

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You can use anything on you as self defence.

House keys can be used to gauge to eyes or scratch the face. I have a metal key chain in a shape of an arrow head which I can jab into someone's spleen.

A handful of coins thrown to someone face will distract him momentarily to either gain the upper hand or run away.

During a struggle you can remove your shirt and cover your attacker's face and choke him or slam his face/head to the pavement or a wall.

However 99% of all conflicts are avoidable, so use your brains.
 

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DJDamage said:
However 99% of all conflicts are avoidable, so use your brains.
Just read this until it sinks in.



truthistruth said:
Vermont is the only state
The other 49 will be shocked to learn this.



truthistruth said:
Once I was mugged ,
I could have used any of tools
Find a rock you like the feel of then.
 

Warrior74

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truthistruth said:
Once I was mugged ,
I could have used any of tools ,

not looking for a gun
Vermont is the only state

"how many times have you needed a weapon? "

been mugged twice at gun point, once with my pistol on me. Like I was gonna reach for it and get shot. If someone has got the drop on you, give them what they want.

Now if you come in my house in the middle of the night, be prepared to take two in the chest.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I have a kubotan on my keys. That works pretty well when you know how to use it. Even if you don't its still pretty effective as an eye gauger, fist brace, or even just to smack someone with while your holding on to your keys... or vice versa

Aside from that there are always these options as well

spiked kubotan

Pepper Spray Ring
 
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