"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Small Observation - What Guys Can Learn from Women

musclyjerk

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I've noticed when most chicks 'displays interest' - whether that's over the Internet, in real life etc . . . if you don't reciprocate, they assume you aren't interested and that's it - they move on, they forget they were ever interested in you, aren't at all bothered, won't hold it against you unless you lead them on and they certainly don't hang around trying to get you interested in them.

If you aren't acting in a similar manner you should take a leaf out of their book.

The Muscly Jerk
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MuscleDude - I think you have it backwards!!!! Insert "he" for "she" and you have it right!!! It is THE MAN who displays interest FIRST!!!!!! If "SHE" DOESN'T FOLLOW YOU, "THE MAN", THEN THE HELL WITH HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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Not true: The girl smiles, stands close, laughs at your jokes hell even just a long look.

However I disagree with the OP, people who aren't desparate can move on, men or women. Those that are desparate see each rejection as another in a long line fueling their hatred. Therefore this feeling is to be avoided at all cost, either holding out for too long or not approaching to begin with.
 

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every chick that i ever dated. i showed no interest and it worked more wonders then showing interest. it;s more about wheeling them in slowly. it's not hard to tell when a girl likes you. you have to make them work on you.

maybe if she's not that good looking of a girl and you show no interest she will move on. but if it's a little rocket and you show that she absolutly means nothing to you then she will pursue you like a wildfire. she'll flirt with you to death.

nobody likes to work for something without the benefit
 
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