"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Small Observation - What Guys Can Learn from Women

musclyjerk

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I've noticed when most chicks 'displays interest' - whether that's over the Internet, in real life etc . . . if you don't reciprocate, they assume you aren't interested and that's it - they move on, they forget they were ever interested in you, aren't at all bothered, won't hold it against you unless you lead them on and they certainly don't hang around trying to get you interested in them.

If you aren't acting in a similar manner you should take a leaf out of their book.

The Muscly Jerk
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MuscleDude - I think you have it backwards!!!! Insert "he" for "she" and you have it right!!! It is THE MAN who displays interest FIRST!!!!!! If "SHE" DOESN'T FOLLOW YOU, "THE MAN", THEN THE HELL WITH HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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Not true: The girl smiles, stands close, laughs at your jokes hell even just a long look.

However I disagree with the OP, people who aren't desparate can move on, men or women. Those that are desparate see each rejection as another in a long line fueling their hatred. Therefore this feeling is to be avoided at all cost, either holding out for too long or not approaching to begin with.
 

insanity

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every chick that i ever dated. i showed no interest and it worked more wonders then showing interest. it;s more about wheeling them in slowly. it's not hard to tell when a girl likes you. you have to make them work on you.

maybe if she's not that good looking of a girl and you show no interest she will move on. but if it's a little rocket and you show that she absolutly means nothing to you then she will pursue you like a wildfire. she'll flirt with you to death.

nobody likes to work for something without the benefit
 
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