"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Small Observation - What Guys Can Learn from Women

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I've noticed when most chicks 'displays interest' - whether that's over the Internet, in real life etc . . . if you don't reciprocate, they assume you aren't interested and that's it - they move on, they forget they were ever interested in you, aren't at all bothered, won't hold it against you unless you lead them on and they certainly don't hang around trying to get you interested in them.

If you aren't acting in a similar manner you should take a leaf out of their book.

The Muscly Jerk
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MuscleDude - I think you have it backwards!!!! Insert "he" for "she" and you have it right!!! It is THE MAN who displays interest FIRST!!!!!! If "SHE" DOESN'T FOLLOW YOU, "THE MAN", THEN THE HELL WITH HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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Not true: The girl smiles, stands close, laughs at your jokes hell even just a long look.

However I disagree with the OP, people who aren't desparate can move on, men or women. Those that are desparate see each rejection as another in a long line fueling their hatred. Therefore this feeling is to be avoided at all cost, either holding out for too long or not approaching to begin with.
 
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every chick that i ever dated. i showed no interest and it worked more wonders then showing interest. it;s more about wheeling them in slowly. it's not hard to tell when a girl likes you. you have to make them work on you.

maybe if she's not that good looking of a girl and you show no interest she will move on. but if it's a little rocket and you show that she absolutly means nothing to you then she will pursue you like a wildfire. she'll flirt with you to death.

nobody likes to work for something without the benefit
 
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