"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Small High School

TheNewGuy

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Hey all,

I'm semi-popular, and I have a crush on a popular sophomore. Normally I would just ask her out, but I have a small high school. So if I ask her out, and she says no then the whole school knows about it and im screwed.

We used to talk alot in one class, but then we got a new teacher and the b!tch moved us :( , now when I talk to her online she barely responds, so I end up doing all the talking.

What should I do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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souporman

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Relax dude... dont worry about the rejection

Just ask her in a way so that if she says no its not really a rejection....

Go out with some friends and invite her along.
 

Maeisgood

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How do you word it to make it not seem like a rejection?
 

jetsfan

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Just tell her you're not doing anything right now, and are looking for something fun to do. Ask her if she wants to hang out or something. If she says no, its no big deal, just say ok i'll talk to ya later or something like that.
 

Mr. Debonaire

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to make it not seem like a rejection you ask her to do something specific that you want to do

ask her if she likes bowling, if she says no then it doesn't matter, if she says yes then say ME TOO! (high five) we should go bowling sometime (be more creative, im tired). if your vibing she will say yeah that'd be awesome, if not then she'll say no. but who cares? your not technically asking her out, so if she says no its no loss for you, right?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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