"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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small gifts,a collectors thread for ideas

Mr.Speed

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I have been wondering recently what to give away, as a small gift.

I came up with: flowers, shower gels (not the cheap ones), maybe a book(risky,you gotta know if she reads and what she reads), maybe a bottle of a classy wine.

a weird idea, but also pretty creative is a small cactus (with blossoms),instead a bunch of flowers :D

what do you think? what do you guys recommand as a small gift for a woman?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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zerocelcius

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Camisole~Simple Maybe some Lace w/Trimming No Shocking Colors
Boy-Shorts (look great w/matching Camisole)
Journal
Exotic Body Lotion/Candle Set
Perfume (that you like)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Chosen1

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Women always like flowers but you can't just give it to them. If you do it has to be in a way they will remember. Also someone else said perfume. If you want to really stand out pay really close attention to what they say, and try to get that.But remember it must be in a way that they will never suspect.
 
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