"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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small gifts,a collectors thread for ideas

Mr.Speed

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I have been wondering recently what to give away, as a small gift.

I came up with: flowers, shower gels (not the cheap ones), maybe a book(risky,you gotta know if she reads and what she reads), maybe a bottle of a classy wine.

a weird idea, but also pretty creative is a small cactus (with blossoms),instead a bunch of flowers :D

what do you think? what do you guys recommand as a small gift for a woman?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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zerocelcius

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Camisole~Simple Maybe some Lace w/Trimming No Shocking Colors
Boy-Shorts (look great w/matching Camisole)
Journal
Exotic Body Lotion/Candle Set
Perfume (that you like)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chosen1

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Women always like flowers but you can't just give it to them. If you do it has to be in a way they will remember. Also someone else said perfume. If you want to really stand out pay really close attention to what they say, and try to get that.But remember it must be in a way that they will never suspect.
 
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