“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Smack Me Back to Reality

denverfan110

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I'm consciously realizing im AFCing with my GF. We're both still infatuated with one another and everything is still going great. However, I can tell I'm beginning to catch incredibly deep feels and honestly the magnitude of them is starting to scare me. I love this chick. A lot. And the thought of losing her scares me, even though everything is going fine right now.

Please, someone, tell me what I need to hear. I'm better than this.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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denverfan110 said:
I'm consciously realizing im AFCing with my GF. We're both still infatuated with one another and everything is still going great. However, I can tell I'm beginning to catch incredibly deep feels and honestly the magnitude of them is starting to scare me. I love this chick. A lot. And the thought of losing her scares me, even though everything is going fine right now.

Please, someone, tell me what I need to hear. I'm better than this.
Start spending more time on YOU aka gym, with your friends.

Pick up some hobbies like soccer or football.

The trick is to develop a life that does not completely involve her to remind yourself that you do NOT need her.

Get some phone numbers while your at it, you don't have to actually call but it will help boost your confidence up.
 

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It's normal to start spinning in a relationship. There is nothing wrong with falling hard for someone. Just be smart about it.

The health of an individual has various aspects.
There is:

emotional health
Financial health
mental health
medical health
physical health
social health
and a few others!

Mental health is the most important because it really effects the rest most powerfully, whereas if you are physically ill for example you can still have peace of mind.

When one relationship dominates the other areas of our life then the other areas may suffer. They are interconnected.

See your life in different areas. In different domains. The fear of losing her could affect your mental health, it may affect your physical and emotional health but look at other ways to balance things out.

This improves general well-being.
 
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