"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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so ive been talking to this girl for maybe 2 weeks. she has spent the night with me twice. the first time i got her shirt off but thats it. when i tried to finger her she moved my hand away. she had mention something to her friend about changing birth control because her periods sucked so i figured she might be on hers so whatever.
that was before spring break. anyway we both got back into town and she came over last night again. this time i got her down to her underwear, topless, and i fingered her after she slightly resisted telling me it would make her want to do more.
she have me a hand job but didnt suck it. after we messed around for awhile i made it obvious i wanted to **** but she said she really wanted to but that we couldnt.
is this girl just putting up this defense because she doesnt want me to think shes a slut or what? i really want to **** her and its starting to piss me off.
how do i get around it?

thanks!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Chloroform obviously!

On a serious note: There is a difference between penetrating through LMR and applying so much pressure she might give in. Maybe she doesn't want to f*ck so easily, maybe she still has her V-plates. However, since you got more success since the first time, why get pissed off? Aren't you having a great time just messing around?

If you get pissed off so easily over this, I suggest you seek help, because getting pissed off over not getting jiggy with her sounds awfully messed up.
 
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im not literally pissed off, i would just like to speed up the process is all. i know shes not a virgin, she lost it at 15 because she told me. im guessing shes calmed down a lot since her high school days(shes still only 18) and she is a pretty good girl so that might be all it is.

but still..what to do?
 
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Just keep it coming. She went further the 2nd time, put up some LMR(I want more if you continue) and you broke it properly. So just keep doing whatever you're doing and it should be well.
 
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SandHawk said:
Just keep it coming. She went further the 2nd time, put up some LMR(I want more if you continue) and you broke it properly. So just keep doing whatever you're doing and it should be well.
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alright ballin..what is LMR again? i get the idea but whats it stand for
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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