"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Slut Defense?

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so ive been talking to this girl for maybe 2 weeks. she has spent the night with me twice. the first time i got her shirt off but thats it. when i tried to finger her she moved my hand away. she had mention something to her friend about changing birth control because her periods sucked so i figured she might be on hers so whatever.
that was before spring break. anyway we both got back into town and she came over last night again. this time i got her down to her underwear, topless, and i fingered her after she slightly resisted telling me it would make her want to do more.
she have me a hand job but didnt suck it. after we messed around for awhile i made it obvious i wanted to **** but she said she really wanted to but that we couldnt.
is this girl just putting up this defense because she doesnt want me to think shes a slut or what? i really want to **** her and its starting to piss me off.
how do i get around it?

thanks!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chloroform obviously!

On a serious note: There is a difference between penetrating through LMR and applying so much pressure she might give in. Maybe she doesn't want to f*ck so easily, maybe she still has her V-plates. However, since you got more success since the first time, why get pissed off? Aren't you having a great time just messing around?

If you get pissed off so easily over this, I suggest you seek help, because getting pissed off over not getting jiggy with her sounds awfully messed up.
 
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im not literally pissed off, i would just like to speed up the process is all. i know shes not a virgin, she lost it at 15 because she told me. im guessing shes calmed down a lot since her high school days(shes still only 18) and she is a pretty good girl so that might be all it is.

but still..what to do?
 
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Just keep it coming. She went further the 2nd time, put up some LMR(I want more if you continue) and you broke it properly. So just keep doing whatever you're doing and it should be well.
 
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SandHawk said:
Just keep it coming. She went further the 2nd time, put up some LMR(I want more if you continue) and you broke it properly. So just keep doing whatever you're doing and it should be well.
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alright ballin..what is LMR again? i get the idea but whats it stand for
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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