"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Slut? and i dont have my own pad

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Anyway a few days ago i respond to this online ad posting of a girl.
Today i got an email back seems like she wants to get together this weekend, she mentioned something about being busy tonight cause going clubbing with her friends, but was free on sunday. And she also included a link to her so called 'pics'.
So i clicked it and it linked me to this page with porn pics of that girl...you know those commercial types that give you a preview and if you want more you have to sign up and pay. she tried to self-promote herself by mentioning in the email to sign up if interested.

Her online ad sounded pretty professional and sh!t, and now i realize shes another slut. What if she is you ask? well she could be a quick lay...or maybe she wants to meet up just to get laid, but the problem is im still living at home.

I know it's 10x easier to get laid having your own pad, that way the girl doesnt believe she's a slut if you invite her up to your place. So now im just caught in a dilemna, what the hell do i do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How much do you want her?

You are allowed to bring her back home, just run it past your parents (I might have a girl stay over....can I be alone). Be straight forward about it and you shouldn't have a problem.

Send pictures and a Field Report.
 
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you stay away from this whole situation..nothing good will come out of it
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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