"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Slowly but surely changing my rep

Canibus27

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The past two years of highschool has been pretty lonely, I've had one girlfriend, who cheated on me. Now, I was a WIGGER!!!!!!!! And being is wigger is not a good way to meet women, and I was always uncomfortable with the way I dress, it just wasn't me. I guess the reason why I became a wigger was my bestfriend growing up is black, and we would always hang out, so I guess that might of been it, but I can also blame myself. This year I've decided to stop being a wigger and start trying to hang out with the preps. I've slowly gotten on there good side I guess. I've begun talking to them in my class, and we've had some fun conversations, I've caught prep girls giving me looks, I am a little more open to women. As I said in another post, a girl asked for my number, I'm planning on asking her to go out and doing something when I get my license. I've had prep friends and I've relied on them to get me deeper into there "social circle". Things are going good though. I no longer where these huge clothes, instead I'm wearing Polo's and lacoste. I plan to get a bunch of sweaters. And on saturday, I am going to my first party, and will probably be the first time I get drunk. Best part is that were going to be drinking with a bunch of girls, so who knows what could happen! I've made a myspace is that has gotten my face out there A LOT, and I've met a lot of new people. So I'm really amped for Saturday night, I have a place to crash, and I've gotten some preps numbers so we can chill sometime. Hope I can keep up the progress, I'll tell you how the party goes!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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muzicfreak2k3

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arrite man congrats... hope it all goes well
 

i am me

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cant go wrong wit polos n lacoste...i get the XL sizes tho cus i feel uncomfortable in anything too big or too small...

but anyway, props on bein able to accept yourself
 

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Remember it's better to say too little then say too much and regret it later...watch what you say and be mindful of the positions you to on just about every topic, and don't always agree otherwise they'll see you as a follower, and that's not what you want, the popular kids are all leaders in one way or another.
 

Canibus27

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Well a little update. So I went to the party, and there were only 10 of us drinking. Some girls left and then there were 7 of us, 5 guys and 2 girls. I got drunk, and I started to make out with one of the girls. I eventually blacked out. I was suppose to sleep over at my friends house, but I woke up in my bed. Apparently, one of my friends father came over and said that I was missing, so they went looking for me and I was passed out in the woods. I just have a terrible feeling.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Frink'

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So anyways, when you drink, don't get really drunk. Keep yourself tipsy. You'll have controll and wont do stupid stuff.
 

Canibus27

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Well, that is what I planned, but I was drinking, and I wasn't getting a buzz at all. Then it all kind of hit me at once. But it was fun, until I got caught. We had girls kissing.
 

asdfghjkl

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haha yea, i could have told you that you were goin to overdrink on your first time haha.

Good job with that girl, however next time definetly dont get as drunk.


However, i have to say, dont just wear polo and lacoste and sweaters and crap just to be popular. And definitely dont just dress like an Abercrombie model, get your own sense of style, dont just follow the trends. People are just sheep when it comes to fashion, so break away from them and get your own style!:up:



(Note: i wear "preppy" clothes however i always add my own twists to it, im known for some crazy clothes sometimes)
 

Canibus27

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Well nobody at my school wears the polo cotton sweaters, so thats what I've been getting. I really like them and I've received nothing but good comments.
 
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