"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Slowly but surely changing my rep

Canibus27

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The past two years of highschool has been pretty lonely, I've had one girlfriend, who cheated on me. Now, I was a WIGGER!!!!!!!! And being is wigger is not a good way to meet women, and I was always uncomfortable with the way I dress, it just wasn't me. I guess the reason why I became a wigger was my bestfriend growing up is black, and we would always hang out, so I guess that might of been it, but I can also blame myself. This year I've decided to stop being a wigger and start trying to hang out with the preps. I've slowly gotten on there good side I guess. I've begun talking to them in my class, and we've had some fun conversations, I've caught prep girls giving me looks, I am a little more open to women. As I said in another post, a girl asked for my number, I'm planning on asking her to go out and doing something when I get my license. I've had prep friends and I've relied on them to get me deeper into there "social circle". Things are going good though. I no longer where these huge clothes, instead I'm wearing Polo's and lacoste. I plan to get a bunch of sweaters. And on saturday, I am going to my first party, and will probably be the first time I get drunk. Best part is that were going to be drinking with a bunch of girls, so who knows what could happen! I've made a myspace is that has gotten my face out there A LOT, and I've met a lot of new people. So I'm really amped for Saturday night, I have a place to crash, and I've gotten some preps numbers so we can chill sometime. Hope I can keep up the progress, I'll tell you how the party goes!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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muzicfreak2k3

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arrite man congrats... hope it all goes well
 

i am me

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cant go wrong wit polos n lacoste...i get the XL sizes tho cus i feel uncomfortable in anything too big or too small...

but anyway, props on bein able to accept yourself
 

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Remember it's better to say too little then say too much and regret it later...watch what you say and be mindful of the positions you to on just about every topic, and don't always agree otherwise they'll see you as a follower, and that's not what you want, the popular kids are all leaders in one way or another.
 

Canibus27

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Well a little update. So I went to the party, and there were only 10 of us drinking. Some girls left and then there were 7 of us, 5 guys and 2 girls. I got drunk, and I started to make out with one of the girls. I eventually blacked out. I was suppose to sleep over at my friends house, but I woke up in my bed. Apparently, one of my friends father came over and said that I was missing, so they went looking for me and I was passed out in the woods. I just have a terrible feeling.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Frink'

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So anyways, when you drink, don't get really drunk. Keep yourself tipsy. You'll have controll and wont do stupid stuff.
 

Canibus27

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Well, that is what I planned, but I was drinking, and I wasn't getting a buzz at all. Then it all kind of hit me at once. But it was fun, until I got caught. We had girls kissing.
 

asdfghjkl

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haha yea, i could have told you that you were goin to overdrink on your first time haha.

Good job with that girl, however next time definetly dont get as drunk.


However, i have to say, dont just wear polo and lacoste and sweaters and crap just to be popular. And definitely dont just dress like an Abercrombie model, get your own sense of style, dont just follow the trends. People are just sheep when it comes to fashion, so break away from them and get your own style!:up:



(Note: i wear "preppy" clothes however i always add my own twists to it, im known for some crazy clothes sometimes)
 

Canibus27

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Well nobody at my school wears the polo cotton sweaters, so thats what I've been getting. I really like them and I've received nothing but good comments.
 
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