Slow fade

[Epic Days]

I got the slow fade over the past month from one of the girls I was seeing and looking back I still can’t nail down when it began. I know she started it a month ago but she was really good at it, she drug that **** out for a whole month and while I was seeing other women I still couldn’t help but wonder why I was being slow faded. Usually guys do this and this is the first time I’ve ever had a girl do it to me. I kinda called her out on it and of course she denied it said I was acting extreme. I know I shouldn’t have but she kept contacting me sporadically and oneday I was like “look I know you’re slow fading me so if you don’t want to see me anymore just say so and we can both go out separate ways and be done with it”. That’s what she called me “acting extreme” but in my defense I thought it might curb the behavior on her part. Nope. My question has any of you guys ever experienced the slow fade from women? Like I said it’s usually a guy thing and you never hear women doing it.

Every single woman you engage. Are you seeing her and talking to her more than once a week? If you are it’s guaranteed.

 

[Epic Days]

I think you are too reactive and living in her frame. Who cares about all that.

The last time a woman told me about her relationship rules I responded with a sarcastic “I care” and she knew I didn’t care. She was my sex slave for months. You think you can turn your girl into a sexual slave by caring about her whims, posting about it, and analyzing it?

Oh so true. Lol
Has been my operating basis since I reached puberty. Sex slave.

 

[Robert28]

Every single woman you engage. Are you seeing her and talking to her more than once a week? If you are it’s guaranteed.

Well apparently the problem is I haven’t been talking to her enough. I saw her twice last month but the months before that we saw each other at least once a week, which is probably how I fell into her frame over time but I couldn’t tell you the exact point.

 

[Robert28]

I already told you the universal law to attraction. When she turns away, you turn away. Anything you will do at this point will just be repulsive.

My diagnosis is that you started off as an attractive and interesting guy. But then you got attached and needy. And you did a complete 180, which prompted her to tell you straight up that needy guys repulse her.

So your problem is “how do I maintain frame through the relationship?”

And the answer is simple. But instead of giving you the answer, I want to ask you....what is your ultimate purpose in life?

Well when she said that about the needy guys she followed it up with “you are anything but needy, if anything you don’t text me first hardly ever. I’m always the one texting you” and I knew that was a test to see how I’d react but I never changed up my texting frequency. Maybe it did get old for her after awhile I dunno.

 

[Epic Days]

Well apparently the problem is I haven’t been talking to her enough. I saw her twice last month but the months before that we saw each other at least once a week, which is probably how I fell into her frame over time but I couldn’t tell you the exact point.

This is her problem and is not for you to solve. You’ve introverted on these things. The things shes said. You don’t do a damn thing based on her proclamations. This is highly manipulative.
You can use it to your advantage.
But you have to get back outside of it. Step outside your mind and it’s reactive nature. It’s important to remain icy. Stay frosty in the face of these things.

She doesn’t even have close to the potential you have. Better to be dead than to kneel. Getting introverted due to her actions or words is kneeling.
This is how those BPD/dangerous women, guys get all wrecked. She introverts him and he reacts and caves. His self worth is based on her opinions and poison drip comments.

This is called a victim. Nothing close to masculine.