"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Slightly woozy feeling in gym

Need-2-B-Pimpin

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I noticed on monday (or wednesday...one of those ones that end in "day") that I felt a bit woozy/nauseous at the gym. It was very minor, nothing near puking or anything. I had just taken a week off and I was starting week 9 or 10 or so. I was drinking water, etc though during my week off my diet had kind of croaked. It didn't last very long and I went back yesterday for chest/tris day and I didn't get it at all. I'm not really worried about it since it was just once and so on, just wondering what it was and if I should be worried about it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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were you doing legs???

You can get that really easy doing legs, and even push yourself to puking. (Puking isn't good, robs your body of nutrition.)

If so, nothing to worry about... make sure you have energy in your body before you attempt legs.. they'll give you a big headache and dizzyness otherwise.
 

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I don't remember if it was monday(kegs) or wednesday (back/bi) so I don't know.
 

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Yup, a good back workout can do that too. I actually just puked my brains out doing heavy Olympic lifts followed by deads.
 

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For deads, if I'm going near my one rep max on back day, I'll take 95% of my 1 rep max and wont settle for anything less than four reps. That usually has me close to throwing. As do serious leg days.

For me, legs and back make me feel sick, usually back the most for some reason. Any idea what actually causes the sickness? [dont say lifting heavy-ass weights ;)]
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've heard that it's because you're using so many muscles at one time, but I personally think that it's because you're straining like hell and your head is moving (Squats, deads, lunges)
 
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