"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Slightly woozy feeling in gym

Need-2-B-Pimpin

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I noticed on monday (or wednesday...one of those ones that end in "day") that I felt a bit woozy/nauseous at the gym. It was very minor, nothing near puking or anything. I had just taken a week off and I was starting week 9 or 10 or so. I was drinking water, etc though during my week off my diet had kind of croaked. It didn't last very long and I went back yesterday for chest/tris day and I didn't get it at all. I'm not really worried about it since it was just once and so on, just wondering what it was and if I should be worried about it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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were you doing legs???

You can get that really easy doing legs, and even push yourself to puking. (Puking isn't good, robs your body of nutrition.)

If so, nothing to worry about... make sure you have energy in your body before you attempt legs.. they'll give you a big headache and dizzyness otherwise.
 

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I don't remember if it was monday(kegs) or wednesday (back/bi) so I don't know.
 

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Yup, a good back workout can do that too. I actually just puked my brains out doing heavy Olympic lifts followed by deads.
 

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For deads, if I'm going near my one rep max on back day, I'll take 95% of my 1 rep max and wont settle for anything less than four reps. That usually has me close to throwing. As do serious leg days.

For me, legs and back make me feel sick, usually back the most for some reason. Any idea what actually causes the sickness? [dont say lifting heavy-ass weights ;)]
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've heard that it's because you're using so many muscles at one time, but I personally think that it's because you're straining like hell and your head is moving (Squats, deads, lunges)
 
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