"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Something very odd happened to me about a week ago. I was sitting on a couch watching a movie, semi-lying in the corner of one side. There was an attractive woman sitting on the other corner. She started by laying her legs across mine, then just shifted position and lay down in the crook of my arm. Not too long after that she said she was getting hot so she pulled off her dress and, holding it over her breasts (no bra), lay back down next to me with her hand on my chest, occasionally caressing it. When she lay down she positioned herself so the only place my hand could go was on her ass or her exposed side. She stayed there doing that for the rest of the movie, then pulled on her dress and left.

Now to the odd part, her husband, one of my good friends, was sitting in a chair five feet away watching the movie too. Until last night I had this girl set strictly, and perfectly happily, as a "friend" and thought that was all I was to her, now I'm not sure what she thinks. She's married, and not only married but married to a good friend. What, exactly, am I supposed to think of this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Maybe they're trying to tell you they're swingers and want you in on it...What was your bud doing all this time? I assume he was aware of what was going on?
 

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I would stay away from married women.
 

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shaunuk said:
Maybe they're trying to tell you they're swingers and want you in on it...What was your bud doing all this time? I assume he was aware of what was going on?
He was watching the movie with occasional breaks to get a drink or shift positions or talk to us, and at the end of the movie she'd fallen asleep so he helped her up. So yes, he was aware.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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kwright said:
He was watching the movie with occasional breaks to get a drink or shift positions or talk to us, and at the end of the movie she'd fallen asleep so he helped her up. So yes, he was aware.
Ide have to agree with the quoted poster.. they are swingers. Ask your friend about it if you want to **** her.
 

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scottfall said:
Ide have to agree with the quoted poster.. they are swingers. Ask your friend about it if you want to **** her.
Thank you for the advice, though it turned out to be unneeded. I didn't have to ask.
 
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