"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Something very odd happened to me about a week ago. I was sitting on a couch watching a movie, semi-lying in the corner of one side. There was an attractive woman sitting on the other corner. She started by laying her legs across mine, then just shifted position and lay down in the crook of my arm. Not too long after that she said she was getting hot so she pulled off her dress and, holding it over her breasts (no bra), lay back down next to me with her hand on my chest, occasionally caressing it. When she lay down she positioned herself so the only place my hand could go was on her ass or her exposed side. She stayed there doing that for the rest of the movie, then pulled on her dress and left.

Now to the odd part, her husband, one of my good friends, was sitting in a chair five feet away watching the movie too. Until last night I had this girl set strictly, and perfectly happily, as a "friend" and thought that was all I was to her, now I'm not sure what she thinks. She's married, and not only married but married to a good friend. What, exactly, am I supposed to think of this?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Maybe they're trying to tell you they're swingers and want you in on it...What was your bud doing all this time? I assume he was aware of what was going on?
 

Darth

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I would stay away from married women.
 

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shaunuk said:
Maybe they're trying to tell you they're swingers and want you in on it...What was your bud doing all this time? I assume he was aware of what was going on?
He was watching the movie with occasional breaks to get a drink or shift positions or talk to us, and at the end of the movie she'd fallen asleep so he helped her up. So yes, he was aware.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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kwright said:
He was watching the movie with occasional breaks to get a drink or shift positions or talk to us, and at the end of the movie she'd fallen asleep so he helped her up. So yes, he was aware.
Ide have to agree with the quoted poster.. they are swingers. Ask your friend about it if you want to **** her.
 

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scottfall said:
Ide have to agree with the quoted poster.. they are swingers. Ask your friend about it if you want to **** her.
Thank you for the advice, though it turned out to be unneeded. I didn't have to ask.
 
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