"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Slight Injury

Chris23

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When I Bench Press my left shoulder runs out of energy pretty easy. I will easily be putting up the weight and then it will feel as if my left shoulder just goes on me slowly.

It's becoming a problem cause my right shoulder never does that. Never ever even feels like that. I'm using my chest to get the weight up, but I have long arms and it's killing me.

I'm going out of town this week and might take some time off from the gym. Should I take like 10 days off then just start benching really slow again.

I enjoy working out and would hate to injure myself after only 6 weeks.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Coolage

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what's your routine?

maybe your shoulder is need to be worked on.

Is there any pain?
 

Chris23

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I wouldnt say it is really pain. It's just like I am pressing the weight up and each rep my left shoulder gets weaker and weaker. It's like I can feel it good.

I could be benching more, but my damn shoulder holds me back.

It wasnt like this when I first started working out. Just as of late.

Maybe I benched to much to quick. I eat right and let my body fully recover too. When I work my shoulders I do notice the left one still lags, but much more when I bench.
 
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