"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Slight Double Chin

SinisterOne

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I am 31 years old and I have noticed a some fat forming under my chin. I guess this is just an age thing. Or is it possible to get rid of through your diet and doing more cardio? I started doing some of those facial exercises I found online, but I really think it is more about age and bodyfat.

As far as cardio- what I am doing different now is hiit training on the treadmill 3 times a week, and also playing basketball 3 times a week (for about an hour each time). I would think this alone should make a difference if it is indeed possible to get rid of the fat under my chin through exercise.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Also, I forgot to add that I am 6'1 188 lbs so it is not like I am huge or anything.
 
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