"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Slight Double Chin

SinisterOne

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I am 31 years old and I have noticed a some fat forming under my chin. I guess this is just an age thing. Or is it possible to get rid of through your diet and doing more cardio? I started doing some of those facial exercises I found online, but I really think it is more about age and bodyfat.

As far as cardio- what I am doing different now is hiit training on the treadmill 3 times a week, and also playing basketball 3 times a week (for about an hour each time). I would think this alone should make a difference if it is indeed possible to get rid of the fat under my chin through exercise.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Also, I forgot to add that I am 6'1 188 lbs so it is not like I am huge or anything.
 
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