"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Slight Double Chin

SinisterOne

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I am 31 years old and I have noticed a some fat forming under my chin. I guess this is just an age thing. Or is it possible to get rid of through your diet and doing more cardio? I started doing some of those facial exercises I found online, but I really think it is more about age and bodyfat.

As far as cardio- what I am doing different now is hiit training on the treadmill 3 times a week, and also playing basketball 3 times a week (for about an hour each time). I would think this alone should make a difference if it is indeed possible to get rid of the fat under my chin through exercise.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Also, I forgot to add that I am 6'1 188 lbs so it is not like I am huge or anything.
 
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