Slept with my ex and she wants to go another date

[Dhoulmagus]

I broke 4 month nc and drunk texted her if she wanted to see a movie. She agreed and I payed and we had sex afterwards. I knew it was over because she started talking about the future again and planning future meetups. She wants to go out to eat tonight, but I don't want to pay for her stuff again. Is she trying to drag me in to another relationship or just misses me a little?

 

[Armourhead]

Just because she is trying to drag you into a monogamous relationship doesn't mean you have to do that. Keep your frame and only do what you want to do. As long as you don't become attached again and it isn't negatively affecting you I don't see a problem with sleeping with an ex.

 

[marmel75]

Just tell her the extent of the relationship will be fvck buddies and not a dating relationship. Or better yet, just turn it into one by your actions...ie, invite her over or go over there without going on dates

 

[El Payaso]

Just don't see her at all. Dates, sleeping with her hanging out with her...nothing. It will only end with you getting attached and missing her when she cuts you off because most girls eventually get tired of FWBs and want to move on.

 

[Glumix]

Agree with El Payaso.

You ask the question so you are probably not ready for a FwB relationship with an ex. Don't do that or you will learn the hard way.

But perhaps you need to learn the hard way...