Man I never thought I would do something like that. This was my absolute best friend. It just happened. We were kind of drunk, but I know that's no excuse. What (if anything), can I do now? Man I know she wanted me, and I guess that was part of the thrill. I feel like sh!t though. I wish I could go back in time...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Slept with best friend's girl
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You should feel like ****, 'cause that was a ****ty thing to do. But done is done, and it can't be changed.
It's all up to your friend now and how he wants to deal with it.
If it had happened to me, I'd ditch the girl and cut off all contact with the so called friend. Friends don't do that. Doesn't matter if alcohol was involved.. Friends girls are hands off. Period.
It's all up to your friend now and how he wants to deal with it.
If it had happened to me, I'd ditch the girl and cut off all contact with the so called friend. Friends don't do that. Doesn't matter if alcohol was involved.. Friends girls are hands off. Period.
oh dude...weak...
you should feel like scum, and I truly hope you do. Although, the girl is also equally to blame. If your friend doesn't know yet, TELL HIM BEFORE SHE TELLS HIM. It may help you slavage some sort of respect in your friend's eyes.
you should feel like scum, and I truly hope you do. Although, the girl is also equally to blame. If your friend doesn't know yet, TELL HIM BEFORE SHE TELLS HIM. It may help you slavage some sort of respect in your friend's eyes.
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
dear God NO. have some respect for your friend.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
If you're feeling horny and have thoughts that this might be a good idea, I suggest you take care of things yourself - then you should be thinking more clearly and will be able to make the right decision.
Monkey
Master Don Juan
Proceed to stab yourself in the heart with a knife
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
thats real messed up man, Your friendship could totally be ruined.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
mroriginal
Banned
thats not coolmroriginal
Banned
Give her what she deserves, **** her hard! and this time do it for your friend, or ask your friend to tag team.
Don't hurt her. You might as well have a **** body. Not like your friend will ever forgive you and it will eventually come to him. So you might as well get as much pleasure out of it as you can.
And you don't even have to respect her. Do thinks like dirty sanchez, take her picture, and put it up on a blog.
And you don't even have to respect her. Do thinks like dirty sanchez, take her picture, and put it up on a blog.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
dipset_mafia
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BROS BEFORE HOS
man, you fcukd up!
BRO's BEFORE HO's - ANY DAY!
you already crossed your bro by banging his ho, now its up to your bro to live up to the philosophy you have failed to adhere to...
first you gotta ask yourself if he loved her, or if he was just fcuking her... (me i have a " GF" of a few months, i don't love her and quite frankly it wouldn't bother me if a friend of mine ****ed her, i mean i'd dump her, but theres no intimate connection right now.)
then you need to ask yourself.. do i really want my best friend to kick my ass? (and you know you have to let him do it... you fcuking DESERVE IT!)
if a friend of mine ****ed my ex girlfriend, now or ever, I'd fcuking beat the living **** out of them.. you know why ? cause i still love her... it doesn't stop me from getting a$$ but.. once u connect like that, its hard to let it go..
DO NOT - I repeat - DO NOT MASH THAT GIRL AGAIN!!
LISTEN - if she is going to try and bang her man's "BEST FRIEND" - she's probably been cheating on him already and she is ASKING to get caught!!!!!!!!!!!
now bait that little hooker out, and salvage your relationship with your friend.. he deserves that much - before he catches some **** from that little ho.
man, you fcukd up!
BRO's BEFORE HO's - ANY DAY!
you already crossed your bro by banging his ho, now its up to your bro to live up to the philosophy you have failed to adhere to...
first you gotta ask yourself if he loved her, or if he was just fcuking her... (me i have a " GF" of a few months, i don't love her and quite frankly it wouldn't bother me if a friend of mine ****ed her, i mean i'd dump her, but theres no intimate connection right now.)
then you need to ask yourself.. do i really want my best friend to kick my ass? (and you know you have to let him do it... you fcuking DESERVE IT!)
if a friend of mine ****ed my ex girlfriend, now or ever, I'd fcuking beat the living **** out of them.. you know why ? cause i still love her... it doesn't stop me from getting a$$ but.. once u connect like that, its hard to let it go..
DO NOT - I repeat - DO NOT MASH THAT GIRL AGAIN!!
LISTEN - if she is going to try and bang her man's "BEST FRIEND" - she's probably been cheating on him already and she is ASKING to get caught!!!!!!!!!!!
now bait that little hooker out, and salvage your relationship with your friend.. he deserves that much - before he catches some **** from that little ho.
everywomanshero
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I dissent
I would've done her too. Sorry, but I don't believe in having any code of ethics in regard to other males. This is all a competition to see how many women we can sleep with. If she slept with you, then she would've slept with someone else too.
Yes, I think you should tell him that she sleeps with other guys. No, you shouldn;t tell him it's you because it terminate the friendship forever. A second approach is to tell her to dump him or you'll spill the beans anyway.
I would've done her too. Sorry, but I don't believe in having any code of ethics in regard to other males. This is all a competition to see how many women we can sleep with. If she slept with you, then she would've slept with someone else too.
Yes, I think you should tell him that she sleeps with other guys. No, you shouldn;t tell him it's you because it terminate the friendship forever. A second approach is to tell her to dump him or you'll spill the beans anyway.
Re: I dissent
If you are so pvssyhungry that you piss on your friends and sleep with their chicks, then you are as far away from being a DJ as humanly possible. You are not a great man. You are not a catch. You are just a needy little wuss who can't stay away from those few girls that belongs to your mates, instead of bonking some of the 3 billion other girls here on this planet...
I feel sorry for your friends...if you have any
If you are so pvssyhungry that you piss on your friends and sleep with their chicks, then you are as far away from being a DJ as humanly possible. You are not a great man. You are not a catch. You are just a needy little wuss who can't stay away from those few girls that belongs to your mates, instead of bonking some of the 3 billion other girls here on this planet...
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
"Sorry, but I don't believe in having any code of ethics in regard to other males"
**** you. Surely your friends are more important than some cheap ho you're seeing?
Come on dude, get it together. Your friends' girls should be strickly hands off.
**** you. Surely your friends are more important than some cheap ho you're seeing?
Come on dude, get it together. Your friends' girls should be strickly hands off.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.