Man I never thought I would do something like that. This was my absolute best friend. It just happened. We were kind of drunk, but I know that's no excuse. What (if anything), can I do now? Man I know she wanted me, and I guess that was part of the thrill. I feel like sh!t though. I wish I could go back in time...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Slept with best friend's girl
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You should feel like ****, 'cause that was a ****ty thing to do. But done is done, and it can't be changed.
It's all up to your friend now and how he wants to deal with it.
If it had happened to me, I'd ditch the girl and cut off all contact with the so called friend. Friends don't do that. Doesn't matter if alcohol was involved.. Friends girls are hands off. Period.
It's all up to your friend now and how he wants to deal with it.
If it had happened to me, I'd ditch the girl and cut off all contact with the so called friend. Friends don't do that. Doesn't matter if alcohol was involved.. Friends girls are hands off. Period.
oh dude...weak...
you should feel like scum, and I truly hope you do. Although, the girl is also equally to blame. If your friend doesn't know yet, TELL HIM BEFORE SHE TELLS HIM. It may help you slavage some sort of respect in your friend's eyes.
you should feel like scum, and I truly hope you do. Although, the girl is also equally to blame. If your friend doesn't know yet, TELL HIM BEFORE SHE TELLS HIM. It may help you slavage some sort of respect in your friend's eyes.
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
dear God NO. have some respect for your friend.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
If you're feeling horny and have thoughts that this might be a good idea, I suggest you take care of things yourself - then you should be thinking more clearly and will be able to make the right decision.
Monkey
Master Don Juan
Proceed to stab yourself in the heart with a knife
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
thats real messed up man, Your friendship could totally be ruined.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
mroriginal
Banned
thats not coolmroriginal
Banned
Give her what she deserves, **** her hard! and this time do it for your friend, or ask your friend to tag team.
Don't hurt her. You might as well have a **** body. Not like your friend will ever forgive you and it will eventually come to him. So you might as well get as much pleasure out of it as you can.
And you don't even have to respect her. Do thinks like dirty sanchez, take her picture, and put it up on a blog.
And you don't even have to respect her. Do thinks like dirty sanchez, take her picture, and put it up on a blog.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
dipset_mafia
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BROS BEFORE HOS
man, you fcukd up!
BRO's BEFORE HO's - ANY DAY!
you already crossed your bro by banging his ho, now its up to your bro to live up to the philosophy you have failed to adhere to...
first you gotta ask yourself if he loved her, or if he was just fcuking her... (me i have a " GF" of a few months, i don't love her and quite frankly it wouldn't bother me if a friend of mine ****ed her, i mean i'd dump her, but theres no intimate connection right now.)
then you need to ask yourself.. do i really want my best friend to kick my ass? (and you know you have to let him do it... you fcuking DESERVE IT!)
if a friend of mine ****ed my ex girlfriend, now or ever, I'd fcuking beat the living **** out of them.. you know why ? cause i still love her... it doesn't stop me from getting a$$ but.. once u connect like that, its hard to let it go..
DO NOT - I repeat - DO NOT MASH THAT GIRL AGAIN!!
LISTEN - if she is going to try and bang her man's "BEST FRIEND" - she's probably been cheating on him already and she is ASKING to get caught!!!!!!!!!!!
now bait that little hooker out, and salvage your relationship with your friend.. he deserves that much - before he catches some **** from that little ho.
man, you fcukd up!
BRO's BEFORE HO's - ANY DAY!
you already crossed your bro by banging his ho, now its up to your bro to live up to the philosophy you have failed to adhere to...
first you gotta ask yourself if he loved her, or if he was just fcuking her... (me i have a " GF" of a few months, i don't love her and quite frankly it wouldn't bother me if a friend of mine ****ed her, i mean i'd dump her, but theres no intimate connection right now.)
then you need to ask yourself.. do i really want my best friend to kick my ass? (and you know you have to let him do it... you fcuking DESERVE IT!)
if a friend of mine ****ed my ex girlfriend, now or ever, I'd fcuking beat the living **** out of them.. you know why ? cause i still love her... it doesn't stop me from getting a$$ but.. once u connect like that, its hard to let it go..
DO NOT - I repeat - DO NOT MASH THAT GIRL AGAIN!!
LISTEN - if she is going to try and bang her man's "BEST FRIEND" - she's probably been cheating on him already and she is ASKING to get caught!!!!!!!!!!!
now bait that little hooker out, and salvage your relationship with your friend.. he deserves that much - before he catches some **** from that little ho.
everywomanshero
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I dissent
I would've done her too. Sorry, but I don't believe in having any code of ethics in regard to other males. This is all a competition to see how many women we can sleep with. If she slept with you, then she would've slept with someone else too.
Yes, I think you should tell him that she sleeps with other guys. No, you shouldn;t tell him it's you because it terminate the friendship forever. A second approach is to tell her to dump him or you'll spill the beans anyway.
I would've done her too. Sorry, but I don't believe in having any code of ethics in regard to other males. This is all a competition to see how many women we can sleep with. If she slept with you, then she would've slept with someone else too.
Yes, I think you should tell him that she sleeps with other guys. No, you shouldn;t tell him it's you because it terminate the friendship forever. A second approach is to tell her to dump him or you'll spill the beans anyway.
Re: I dissent
If you are so pvssyhungry that you piss on your friends and sleep with their chicks, then you are as far away from being a DJ as humanly possible. You are not a great man. You are not a catch. You are just a needy little wuss who can't stay away from those few girls that belongs to your mates, instead of bonking some of the 3 billion other girls here on this planet...
I feel sorry for your friends...if you have any
If you are so pvssyhungry that you piss on your friends and sleep with their chicks, then you are as far away from being a DJ as humanly possible. You are not a great man. You are not a catch. You are just a needy little wuss who can't stay away from those few girls that belongs to your mates, instead of bonking some of the 3 billion other girls here on this planet...
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
"Sorry, but I don't believe in having any code of ethics in regard to other males"
**** you. Surely your friends are more important than some cheap ho you're seeing?
Come on dude, get it together. Your friends' girls should be strickly hands off.
**** you. Surely your friends are more important than some cheap ho you're seeing?
Come on dude, get it together. Your friends' girls should be strickly hands off.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.