"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sleight

April_Infinite

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I know all of you have a certain sleight, a technique that is your ace in a hole when sarging and dealing with females. Whether it's your amazing unique kiss, or a certain line that gives you instant high value, this is the dealbreaker that you always rely on when DJ'ing a woman.

I know mine is just being incredibly nice. Of course, this doesn't help at all when I'm trying to seduce someone, but it does shock certain people I meet; they can't believe I'm so unselfish.


What is your sleight?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mr_knowit_all

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I guess mine might be the exact opposite. I don't know why, but sometimes when I'm incredibly rude, or don't take any **** from the chick, they seem to respond favorably.

This could just what happens for me, but more times than not, when I act more rude than the chick, she comes around.
 

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Mine is my ability to see the situation and adapt instantly. I can recognize where my situations are headed, barring outside intervetion, in moments. If I don't like what's happening I run through my options quickly while still conversating, and steer things in the direction that I want. I guess I'm a tactition of sorts, where by my experiences and observations I can semi accurately manipulate situations into my favor.
 

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I guess I'm the same as mr. knowit all. When I act like a **** I gets more play sometimes a lot of times nobody believes I'm a virgin. When I really a soft spoken guy, that's a little shy.
 

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This makes no sense at all, but when I say something to a chick like, "**** YOUUUU!", they really seem to fire back with a "**** YOUUUU ryannath" back at me and get turned on somehow by it. One time after I said that to a chick, she said, "yeah, maybe later" and she was laughing.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Interesting, I would of thought there would be more scripted techniques like the cube or something, but I guess people stick to the inner game.
 
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