"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sleight

April_Infinite

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I know all of you have a certain sleight, a technique that is your ace in a hole when sarging and dealing with females. Whether it's your amazing unique kiss, or a certain line that gives you instant high value, this is the dealbreaker that you always rely on when DJ'ing a woman.

I know mine is just being incredibly nice. Of course, this doesn't help at all when I'm trying to seduce someone, but it does shock certain people I meet; they can't believe I'm so unselfish.


What is your sleight?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mr_knowit_all

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I guess mine might be the exact opposite. I don't know why, but sometimes when I'm incredibly rude, or don't take any **** from the chick, they seem to respond favorably.

This could just what happens for me, but more times than not, when I act more rude than the chick, she comes around.
 

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Mine is my ability to see the situation and adapt instantly. I can recognize where my situations are headed, barring outside intervetion, in moments. If I don't like what's happening I run through my options quickly while still conversating, and steer things in the direction that I want. I guess I'm a tactition of sorts, where by my experiences and observations I can semi accurately manipulate situations into my favor.
 

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I guess I'm the same as mr. knowit all. When I act like a **** I gets more play sometimes a lot of times nobody believes I'm a virgin. When I really a soft spoken guy, that's a little shy.
 

ryannath

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This makes no sense at all, but when I say something to a chick like, "**** YOUUUU!", they really seem to fire back with a "**** YOUUUU ryannath" back at me and get turned on somehow by it. One time after I said that to a chick, she said, "yeah, maybe later" and she was laughing.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Interesting, I would of thought there would be more scripted techniques like the cube or something, but I guess people stick to the inner game.
 
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