"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Pdizzzzzzle

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At my school your allowed to sleep on the couches in the library, i saw a couple hbs there and was going to game them, but i wasnt sure if they were awake. My gut instinct was to plop myself next to one and say "Good morning sunshine" in a high pitched non serious vooice, but I've never really woken a girl up before. Would she be grumpy from waking her up?

Most aren't actually sleeping, they're like napping. You know just chilling with their eyes closed.

Basically, I can envision myself having fun with this. You guys think its ok tho?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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nek08

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"Good morning sunshine" in a high pitched non serious vooice"

Don't do that in a high pitched non serious voice.. that's weird.
 

Pdizzzzzzle

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nek08 said:
"Good morning sunshine" in a high pitched non serious vooice"

Don't do that in a high pitched non serious voice.. that's weird.
haha maybe it is, but maybe its just weird enough to work
 

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omg where do you go to school?
i will fvcking transfer there in a heartbeat.
 

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hehe back in the day...a girl was falling asleep in class next to me...i put my hand on her knee to wake her up...she almost jumped...idk if it' was because my hand was on her knee (thigh possibly)...or if it was because it was during band and she woke up to loud music suddenly...but either way
my warning is...if you don't know her...make sure you don't do it too strangely...honestly...if you don't know the girl..iw ouldn't do it because that would scare the **** out of her

if you do know her well....then i dont see why not...but then she woudl wonder why you woke her up..and if it was just to talk..haha idk if she would be too appreciative/receptive to it

if you know her fairly well, i wouldn't...i don't think approaching while she's sleeping is good...imagine you're a girl and were sleeping/napping on a park bench, in the library, etc...and some guy just wakes you up....my gut reaction would be to attack the dude...especially in the state of mind of a girl...girl's are told/shown the ratios of girls that are raped in their lifetime...see that family guy episode
"look to your left, look to your right...research shows that both of those guys will rape you."


honestly, i would suggest approaching while they were awake.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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