"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sleeping with multiple plates

Dgwizdal

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Have slept with 3 plates in one day. Most I have juggled is 4 - 4 is exhausting and will leave you drained to the point where some nights I would just shut my phone off. Last summer was a drunken blur.

2-3 is ideal for the balance you need in your life instead of focusing on getting fvcked up every night and getting laid.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Turuwal

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Dgwizdal said:
Have slept with 3 plates in one day. Most I have juggled is 4 - 4 is exhausting and will leave you drained to the point where some nights I would just shut my phone off. Last summer was a drunken blur.

2-3 is ideal for the balance you need in your life instead of focusing on getting fvcked up every night and getting laid.
Exactly. When I put my crazy "Turuwal method for sex" into action and went hard, after two months I was having sex with 3, BJs with 2, and just at holding hands with the 6th. I dropped girls # 4-6 off the roster once I reached sex with girls # 1-3. It was just too much work and IMO a waste of time.

Three is the perfect number because if you lose one you will never just a have a single girl with the potential for getting feelings and stuff.
 

Sofomore

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Hmmm yea 2-3 seems to be the reasonable number. I just feel bad that I go on a date or two with them, bang, then ditch when a hotter girl comes along without much of an explanation.

If I were single and only had one girl I would feel pretty sh!tty if she just went NC out of the blue like I do.

Maybe it's because I act like I genuinely care about them but once I smash I'm out the door. If she's a nice girl I feel like I'm making her feel jaded about getting played.

Fvcking social conditioning.
 
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