"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Sleeping with multiple plates

Dgwizdal

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Have slept with 3 plates in one day. Most I have juggled is 4 - 4 is exhausting and will leave you drained to the point where some nights I would just shut my phone off. Last summer was a drunken blur.

2-3 is ideal for the balance you need in your life instead of focusing on getting fvcked up every night and getting laid.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Turuwal

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Dgwizdal said:
Have slept with 3 plates in one day. Most I have juggled is 4 - 4 is exhausting and will leave you drained to the point where some nights I would just shut my phone off. Last summer was a drunken blur.

2-3 is ideal for the balance you need in your life instead of focusing on getting fvcked up every night and getting laid.
Exactly. When I put my crazy "Turuwal method for sex" into action and went hard, after two months I was having sex with 3, BJs with 2, and just at holding hands with the 6th. I dropped girls # 4-6 off the roster once I reached sex with girls # 1-3. It was just too much work and IMO a waste of time.

Three is the perfect number because if you lose one you will never just a have a single girl with the potential for getting feelings and stuff.
 

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Hmmm yea 2-3 seems to be the reasonable number. I just feel bad that I go on a date or two with them, bang, then ditch when a hotter girl comes along without much of an explanation.

If I were single and only had one girl I would feel pretty sh!tty if she just went NC out of the blue like I do.

Maybe it's because I act like I genuinely care about them but once I smash I'm out the door. If she's a nice girl I feel like I'm making her feel jaded about getting played.

Fvcking social conditioning.
 
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