"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sleeping with multiple plates

Dgwizdal

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Have slept with 3 plates in one day. Most I have juggled is 4 - 4 is exhausting and will leave you drained to the point where some nights I would just shut my phone off. Last summer was a drunken blur.

2-3 is ideal for the balance you need in your life instead of focusing on getting fvcked up every night and getting laid.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Turuwal

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Dgwizdal said:
Have slept with 3 plates in one day. Most I have juggled is 4 - 4 is exhausting and will leave you drained to the point where some nights I would just shut my phone off. Last summer was a drunken blur.

2-3 is ideal for the balance you need in your life instead of focusing on getting fvcked up every night and getting laid.
Exactly. When I put my crazy "Turuwal method for sex" into action and went hard, after two months I was having sex with 3, BJs with 2, and just at holding hands with the 6th. I dropped girls # 4-6 off the roster once I reached sex with girls # 1-3. It was just too much work and IMO a waste of time.

Three is the perfect number because if you lose one you will never just a have a single girl with the potential for getting feelings and stuff.
 

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Hmmm yea 2-3 seems to be the reasonable number. I just feel bad that I go on a date or two with them, bang, then ditch when a hotter girl comes along without much of an explanation.

If I were single and only had one girl I would feel pretty sh!tty if she just went NC out of the blue like I do.

Maybe it's because I act like I genuinely care about them but once I smash I'm out the door. If she's a nice girl I feel like I'm making her feel jaded about getting played.

Fvcking social conditioning.
 
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