"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Sleeping with EX - Thoughts ?

Yorkex

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Have any of you slept with an ex and what do you make of it ?

Ex gives me blow jobs while we hang out BUT has a boyfriend ( about 2 months in)

No I don't plan to get back with her , I already told her I will make sexual advances because I can't be a "friend".
I set rules , she can't talk to me about her man & their problems.
I don't invite her , she just hits me up and wants to hand out but I already let her know I will be as a man and make sexual excavations
I really don't have any remorse for the guy to be honest :/
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Between_The_Lines

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Yorkex said:
Have any of you slept with an ex and what do you make of it ?

Ex gives me blow jobs while we hang out BUT has a boyfriend ( about 2 months in)

No I don't plan to get back with her , I already told her I will make sexual advances because I can't be a "friend".
I set rules , she can't talk to me about her man & their problems.
I don't invite her , she just hits me up and wants to hand out but I already let her know I will be as a man and make sexual excavations
I really don't have any remorse for the guy to be honest :/
I've screwed around plenty with a particular ex of mine, but getting involved in a situation like your own can be a lot like driving - sometimes, it matters not how well you drive; sometimes, there's really nothing you can do about that drunk driver who jumps the median and ends up hitting you head on as you wait for the light to turn green, meaning, you can do your part to absolute perfection, every move calculated in advance, every possible outcome carefully considered, but you do not control her nor her boyfriend.

How can you be certain she won't slip up in some way? A sudden guilt trip? Maybe they get into a fight and she drunkenly uses screwing you to get back at him? Maybe her boyfriend is paranoid and dumb luck gets you guys caught red handed? Maybe a neighbor rats her out (if you're going to her place)? Continue at your own peril..
 

mikey2012

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Goes to show the treachery of women. I would continue tapping her coz you don't know if your gf is going to the same. As poonking has said all fair in love and war.
 
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