"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sleeping with EX - Thoughts ?

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Yorkex

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Have any of you slept with an ex and what do you make of it ?

Ex gives me blow jobs while we hang out BUT has a boyfriend ( about 2 months in)

No I don't plan to get back with her , I already told her I will make sexual advances because I can't be a "friend".
I set rules , she can't talk to me about her man & their problems.
I don't invite her , she just hits me up and wants to hand out but I already let her know I will be as a man and make sexual excavations
I really don't have any remorse for the guy to be honest :/
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Between_The_Lines

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Yorkex said:
Have any of you slept with an ex and what do you make of it ?

Ex gives me blow jobs while we hang out BUT has a boyfriend ( about 2 months in)

No I don't plan to get back with her , I already told her I will make sexual advances because I can't be a "friend".
I set rules , she can't talk to me about her man & their problems.
I don't invite her , she just hits me up and wants to hand out but I already let her know I will be as a man and make sexual excavations
I really don't have any remorse for the guy to be honest :/
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I've screwed around plenty with a particular ex of mine, but getting involved in a situation like your own can be a lot like driving - sometimes, it matters not how well you drive; sometimes, there's really nothing you can do about that drunk driver who jumps the median and ends up hitting you head on as you wait for the light to turn green, meaning, you can do your part to absolute perfection, every move calculated in advance, every possible outcome carefully considered, but you do not control her nor her boyfriend.

How can you be certain she won't slip up in some way? A sudden guilt trip? Maybe they get into a fight and she drunkenly uses screwing you to get back at him? Maybe her boyfriend is paranoid and dumb luck gets you guys caught red handed? Maybe a neighbor rats her out (if you're going to her place)? Continue at your own peril..
 
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Goes to show the treachery of women. I would continue tapping her coz you don't know if your gf is going to the same. As poonking has said all fair in love and war.
 
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