logicallefty
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GF and I have lived together for 1.5 years. She has been sleeping in the spare bedroom for 3 nights because she has been nasty sick.
I have came to the 100% conclusion with no shadow of a doubt that I sleep way better alone. She tosses and turns in the night so much. Gets up about 5 times in the night to check her FB, not kidding. She crosses the bed like a clock hand and hits all 12 numbers at some point, and I have to bend by body around her to get out of her way.
These last few nights I have slept so deep and feel so rested. I don't even feel like the same person. I actually had what I think they call a dream. Is that what its called when you sleep deep and then things go on in your head that are like watching a video? I think they call those dreams. It's been so long sense i had one.
Normally I get tired and very often will sleep my hour lunch break away at work on the floor in my office, or nap an hour or two on Saturday.
People, including the GF always say "you could afford to loose a few pounds" (which I could), or "your job is too stressful on you you need to get another one" (which it is, and I do, and am working on it). I do not lift much anymore but I do run several times a week.
The point is though, when I sleep by myself and get the rest I need, I feel like a totally different person.
I'm just dreading when she gets well and wants to sleep together again. I don't want to go back to being that tired, but I just don't know what to do.
I have came to the 100% conclusion with no shadow of a doubt that I sleep way better alone. She tosses and turns in the night so much. Gets up about 5 times in the night to check her FB, not kidding. She crosses the bed like a clock hand and hits all 12 numbers at some point, and I have to bend by body around her to get out of her way.
These last few nights I have slept so deep and feel so rested. I don't even feel like the same person. I actually had what I think they call a dream. Is that what its called when you sleep deep and then things go on in your head that are like watching a video? I think they call those dreams. It's been so long sense i had one.
Normally I get tired and very often will sleep my hour lunch break away at work on the floor in my office, or nap an hour or two on Saturday.
People, including the GF always say "you could afford to loose a few pounds" (which I could), or "your job is too stressful on you you need to get another one" (which it is, and I do, and am working on it). I do not lift much anymore but I do run several times a week.
The point is though, when I sleep by myself and get the rest I need, I feel like a totally different person.
I'm just dreading when she gets well and wants to sleep together again. I don't want to go back to being that tired, but I just don't know what to do.
