"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sleeping well??

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When I can't sleep, I come on here and read through a few of my old threads, works a treat:D

Pillows are personal, your gonna have to experiment. Think of a time when you slept well, what were the conditions, have you changed anything recently?

Usually, going to bed with something bugging you is the worst. If I've got something important on the next day, I can stare at the ceiling for hours. Silly really, wake up next day feeling sh1te.
 

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what's wrong with one? two's uncumfy for my neck

because of weightlifting, i am permanently shattered, so i'll fall asleep any time and sleep till after midday everyday if i don't try to wake up.

i heard milk before bed gets you sleepy.

also, if i'm wearing two pairs of socks, or my feet are really warm, i tend to fall asleep even during the day in a chair, nevermind on the bed.
 

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I have three (because I'm a cheap sh**e and get the type that flattened in a week:) ) The fact you are getting to sleep would seem to indicate that its not the pillows, or are you waking because of a stiff neck? As has been said, experiment with different arrangements.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Interesting, I assume you mean dark circles under the eyes. I have these too and have had for years regardless of my sleep pattern, though obviously worse when not sleeping well. I recall reading somewhere that its hereditary and my mother having them seems to support this.
 
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