"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Sleeping on an empty stomach

Maeisgood

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I cannot sleep unless my stomach is completely full. Eating a meal before bed will make me fat. How can I sleep without food or what foods could I eat that will just take up space, but not make me fat? I was thinking of making some sort of stew with lean chicken, celery, barly, and other such things to eat before bed.

Knowing this will help me get a 6 pack.

Thanks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Maeisgood said:
I cannot sleep unless my stomach is completely full. Eating a meal before bed will make me fat. How can I sleep without food or what foods could I eat that will just take up space, but not make me fat? I was thinking of making some sort of stew with lean chicken, celery, barly, and other such things to eat before bed.

Knowing this will help me get a 6 pack.

Thanks.
That's a porkie pie (lie).

Just don't eat carbs unless you've worked out in the afternoon.
 

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Right now its probably mental. You're in the habit of eating before you go to bed, so your body tells itself that you can't go to bed without eating. So try slowly eating less before bed until you can go to bed with a quick snack instead of a full meal.
Or, like Mr. S said, just cut the carbs out of your bedtime snack. You could also try an appetite suppressant about an hour or so before you go to bed, that way when you do eat before bed, you don't eat as much.
 

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I've heard fruit is an appetite supressant. Is that true?
 

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Alcohol always helped me. but really, you shouldn't eat anything 2 hours before sleeping - drink warm milk?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Most fruits have natural sugar in them, which tends to be high on the GI index, which means it spikes your blood-sugar level. Thus, fruit does not suppress your diet. The only support for such a claim is that fruit has a little bit of fiber, which could help produce the feeling of satiety.

Most people confuse hunger for thirst, especially before bed. Make sure you are drinking enough water.

Also, eating before bed will not absolutely turn to fat since it depends on your activity level and your intake over the preceding days. But since it is safe to assume that most do not watch their intake and are not very active, it is a general assumption that eating before bed will make you fat.

If I were you I would get the biggest cup in your cabinet, fill it up with water, and drink a cup per hour before bed.
 

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Maeisgood said:
I cannot sleep unless my stomach is completely full. Eating a meal before bed will make me fat. How can I sleep without food or what foods could I eat that will just take up space, but not make me fat? I was thinking of making some sort of stew with lean chicken, celery, barly, and other such things to eat before bed.

Knowing this will help me get a 6 pack.

Thanks.
That is a myth. It doesn't matter what time you eat. Calories are calories. What will make you fat is eating more of them (at any time) than you burn each day.
 
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