"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sleeping is key for me :D maybe for you too .

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Long time ago a very old DJ told me that the key of he's success was sleeping ..

He slept before going on date , he slept before going to club/bar , he slept before going to school . Everytime he had to deal with women he slept ..

last week i usually slept 7 hours a day and this was very bad for me :S..
Ive felt myself very tired :S i couldnt talk to girls .
Lot of girls that flirt with me or that are attracted by me came to me but i couldnt even talk to them or smile at them :S.. i was very passive with my game .

Yesterday i slept from 9 Afternoon to 7 Morning ( my school starts at 7:30 ) and ive realized that today was a great day .. I was very energic , i felt fresh , i felt great ..

My mood was perfect . i talked almost to everyone in school , outside of school and everywhere ..

I just wanna say that sleeping is great .. If u feel tired all day and u wanna go to club at night better take a sleep for 1 or 2 hours .. its like magic to me :D.

So if u have same problem is me , sleeping is the pill u need :D.. Have fun
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Seconded.

I've found that naps are awesome in keeping me from being a total AFC. Usually mid afternoon after classes and before the nightly fun starts is perfect to put in a half an hour to keep me sharp. Caffeine is alright in moderation, but nothing beats a proper full nights sleep.

I've also found that working out (cardio in particular) helps to keep me energized for the day.
 

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I totally agree and realized this myself some time ago but didn't know how to go about it as my problem is insomnia. I get in bed and don't fall asleep for some time (my mind won't shut off, nothing negative.. It just likes free thinking at the wrong damn time!).

I'm currently half way through "The insomnia solution" which is comprised of various relaxation and meditation techniques deemed 'mini-moves' by the author. Once I've put it in action full swing, if it works well I'll post my evaluation in the health forum.

If your one of those lucky people who hit the pillow and fall sleep in less then 5 minutes.. You lucky bastard. :rolleyes: :D
 

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or take adderall, that'll wake you up :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just my view, but I find caffeine, well, uninviting, I find having something to replace having some naturally, in this case, caffeine in place of sleep. And anway, consider the negative effects of caffeine, you cant sleep at night, and you feel crap afterwards, but each to their own, but personally, I wouldn't ever use caffeine as an alternative, it feels satisfying to know you had a good nights sleep, and wake up feeling great and refreshed.
 

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sleep is for babies. B1TCHES
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How can I shorten the time between me going to bed and falling asleep, it takes 30-60 minutes usually Id say.
 

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kabatura said:
How can I shorten the time between me going to bed and falling asleep, it takes 30-60 minutes usually Id say.
Masturbation.
 

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exercising early in the morning will give you an endorphin high and keep you energized for awhile. It also helped me with my sleeping problems before.
 

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Anyone having sleep, insomnia problems read this book:
Powerful Sleep by; Kacper M. Postawski

Main points:
1: keep good routine of when you sleep, wake up
2: get sunlight
3: exercise early
4: keep hydrated
5: keep naps under 45 min
just brief but the book gets pretty detailed
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Potbelly said:
sleep is for babies. B1TCHES
OMG I slept 8 hours last night! And the night before that! It's become a habit for me, how do I save myself??? :eek:
 

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man i used to run 4 miles a day and do some workout (like pushups,situps ect.) 3 times a week. just with that i would get the same amount of sleep but i slept better, i got up easier, i could actually pay attention MUCH longer in class and i just didnt feel tired all the time. it got to the point where i had so much energy i would be in class and id just wanna leave and go running :p soccer at break time was amazing after during that time too. so def cardio will help alot. also when i go to sleep everynight i put a dvd on the tv or listen to music, having that kinda noise in the background helps me fall asleep
 

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Eating well (good stuff and in large quantities :D) does the job for me. When I'm hungry I can't talk right.
 

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Sleep well .. is the key for every human..

But what about this ?

Do you guys **** before going out or starting the day with this ... 'cause it makes me really feel relaxed and concentrated only in the things that im out there :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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