"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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For the past few months I have been having issues with sleep. It would take like two hours to fall asleep and I will wake up tired. Sometimes with my body hurting. I have a pretty good diet, I do kickboxing every week so what gives? I just finished highschool so there is no stress really. I feel lIke I'm running out of options so I'm taking melotonin but it wasn't working so I quit taking it. Im always yawning as if I don't sleep even though it appears that I'm getting the right amount of hours. I really dnot remember the last time I woke up feeling refreshed and energized. I just want to get say to myself "that was the greatest sleep ever!" miss that feeling. I really need some help here.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Earvon

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Well dear i suggest you to do exercise regularly.Try to do exercise.It makes you healthy and with it you can get a better sleep.You can use a better sleeping pill but discuss with your doctor first.
 

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I've had sleeping disorder's for like 3 years now but I learnt how to fix it. Melatonin doesn't do **** for me I've even went to sleep clinics and they couldn't help me.

What I do before I go to sleep is shower relax make sure you have no light on in your room. Just relax close your eyes. I sleep better with a hectic day..alot of traveling working out etc just keep your self active and at night you should sleep better. Your sleep schedule is most likely messed up right now so take a day of no sleep and don't sleep until a normal time.
I actually am doing that right now...was in the hospital all night.
 

WhitePimp

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I have some sleep issues as well. I rarely feel well-rested or refreshed when I wake up. One strategy that seems to work is having a few poached eggs before I go to sleep. I get crazy ass dreams too
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sometimes your central nervous system just needs a break from exercise.

Also - you say your diet is good - but is it? What foods are you eating, are you carbohydrate sensitive, how much protein etc etc.

By the way - as someone who sleeps not more than 5 hours per night...its not how long you sleep its the QUALITAY of that sleep. I find reading an interesting book helps me fall into a deep sleep.
 
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