"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sleep Problems

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For the past few months I have been having issues with sleep. It would take like two hours to fall asleep and I will wake up tired. Sometimes with my body hurting. I have a pretty good diet, I do kickboxing every week so what gives? I just finished highschool so there is no stress really. I feel lIke I'm running out of options so I'm taking melotonin but it wasn't working so I quit taking it. Im always yawning as if I don't sleep even though it appears that I'm getting the right amount of hours. I really dnot remember the last time I woke up feeling refreshed and energized. I just want to get say to myself "that was the greatest sleep ever!" miss that feeling. I really need some help here.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well dear i suggest you to do exercise regularly.Try to do exercise.It makes you healthy and with it you can get a better sleep.You can use a better sleeping pill but discuss with your doctor first.
 

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I've had sleeping disorder's for like 3 years now but I learnt how to fix it. Melatonin doesn't do **** for me I've even went to sleep clinics and they couldn't help me.

What I do before I go to sleep is shower relax make sure you have no light on in your room. Just relax close your eyes. I sleep better with a hectic day..alot of traveling working out etc just keep your self active and at night you should sleep better. Your sleep schedule is most likely messed up right now so take a day of no sleep and don't sleep until a normal time.
I actually am doing that right now...was in the hospital all night.
 

WhitePimp

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I have some sleep issues as well. I rarely feel well-rested or refreshed when I wake up. One strategy that seems to work is having a few poached eggs before I go to sleep. I get crazy ass dreams too
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sometimes your central nervous system just needs a break from exercise.

Also - you say your diet is good - but is it? What foods are you eating, are you carbohydrate sensitive, how much protein etc etc.

By the way - as someone who sleeps not more than 5 hours per night...its not how long you sleep its the QUALITAY of that sleep. I find reading an interesting book helps me fall into a deep sleep.
 
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