"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sleep problem-Please read.

Dean

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right,this is startiong to mess me up a bit

i wake up at 6:am for a run-by time 10-11pm comes at night i just can not sleep until early hours of the morning-today i didt even get up for run,cant rember alarm clock going off

any suggestions on how i can sort this out?

im on no medication
dont use coffie etc-i dont understand this
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Skilla_Staz

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I find at nights when I stay up on the computer, or playing video games or such, that it takes me longer to fall asleep. When I have a breif phone call, read something, or take a shower before I go to bed, I have less trouble sleeping.
 
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