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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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Hey guys I hear this all the time from girls they hate sleazy guys etc,now what are your interpretations of a sleazy guy as opposed to not being sleazy ? also is it better to be sleazy or play the nice guy more even though your not a push over ? some opinions thanks
 

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Usually women refer to sleazy guys as some one who is either preoccupied with sex or a guy that they just don't find attractive.

Being called sleazy is another gray area where some girls will call you sleazy to their friends or to your face and still end up sleeping with you and some just won't.
 

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DJDamage said:
Usually women refer to sleazy guys as some one who is either preoccupied with sex or a guy that they just don't find attractive.
...or a man*****, or a gross guy/guy with bad hygeine, or a guy who gets too physical too fast, or a combination of several of these ideas. Generally, a pervert with predominantly bad qualities.

DJDamage said:
Being called sleazy is another gray area where some girls will call you sleazy to their friends or to your face and still end up sleeping with you and some just won't.
Agreed. It definitely varies from woman to woman.
 

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sleazy (comparative sleazier, superlative sleaziest)

1. Marked by low quality; inferior; inadequate.
2. Dishonorable; base; vulgar; raunchy

The term "sleazy" is often misused and stretched to mean things that it just plain doesn't mean.

(See above.) If you wanted to call someone "dirty" you'd call them "dirty", If you wanted to call them "creepy", you'd call them "creepy". Fast: fast; nasty: nasty; forward: forward, etc.

Sleazy is a vague and dishonorable snap-judement used by women with inferior intellects and inadequate vocabularies, and thus the typical user of the term "sleazy" is actually better defined as "sleazy" than the intended target.
 
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