"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Sleazy guys..

Anfz

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Hey guys I hear this all the time from girls they hate sleazy guys etc,now what are your interpretations of a sleazy guy as opposed to not being sleazy ? also is it better to be sleazy or play the nice guy more even though your not a push over ? some opinions thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJDamage

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Usually women refer to sleazy guys as some one who is either preoccupied with sex or a guy that they just don't find attractive.

Being called sleazy is another gray area where some girls will call you sleazy to their friends or to your face and still end up sleeping with you and some just won't.
 

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DJDamage said:
Usually women refer to sleazy guys as some one who is either preoccupied with sex or a guy that they just don't find attractive.
...or a man*****, or a gross guy/guy with bad hygeine, or a guy who gets too physical too fast, or a combination of several of these ideas. Generally, a pervert with predominantly bad qualities.

DJDamage said:
Being called sleazy is another gray area where some girls will call you sleazy to their friends or to your face and still end up sleeping with you and some just won't.
Agreed. It definitely varies from woman to woman.
 

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sleazy (comparative sleazier, superlative sleaziest)

1. Marked by low quality; inferior; inadequate.
2. Dishonorable; base; vulgar; raunchy

The term "sleazy" is often misused and stretched to mean things that it just plain doesn't mean.

(See above.) If you wanted to call someone "dirty" you'd call them "dirty", If you wanted to call them "creepy", you'd call them "creepy". Fast: fast; nasty: nasty; forward: forward, etc.

Sleazy is a vague and dishonorable snap-judement used by women with inferior intellects and inadequate vocabularies, and thus the typical user of the term "sleazy" is actually better defined as "sleazy" than the intended target.
 
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