"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Slcik DJ Shoes?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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do you know what a "dj" is? it's about being unique and standing out from the rest. you people need to stop trying to be the same as everyone... go out to a store and try your own sh1t on for yourselves.
i bet youre going to ask if theres a "C&F" way of asking how to get shoes from a "cute HB8" salesgirl now. - luckily i have an answer for that... say "hey i like those shoes over there, wanna fvck?"
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live up to your own advice.oteao99 said:
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but to answer your question, i like my puma's and vans
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
raki
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I'm pretty sure there was a thread about shoes in the discussion forum, from a week or 2 back. The search button is your friend
."She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
It's really a matter of personal style. I like the old school shoes like Nike Cortez and Adidas Superstar. I like white shoes since they evoke a sense of cleaniness, match with everything, and look stylish. I'm also starting to like Lacoste sneakers too.oteao99 said:
But trust me you wanna be true to yourself. Go to footlocker and look at the shoes and pick what YOU think looks good on you. Good luck!